Most modern writing advice argues against using adverbs. I’m going to use some intentionally.
It is—actually, amazingly, astonishingly—good to think about the kind of people Jesus associates with. He eats and drinks with the likes of us. He communes with the “such were some of you”s (1 Corinthians 6:11).
Christ’s suffering informed His sympathy; He took on flesh, He knows our weaknesses, He was tempted as we are (Hebrews 4:15). His suffering leads to our sanctification, and our sanctification has the same source as Jesus’ sanctification. Jesus doesn’t just get us, He owns us.
For it was fitting that he, for whom and by whom all things exist, in bringing many sons to glory, should make the founder of their salvation perfect through suffering. For he who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why he is not ashamed to call them brothers (Hebrews 2:10–11 ESV)
We are not to be ashamed of Jesus and His words (Luke 9:26). We are not to be ashamed of the gospel (Romans 1:16). But when we are tempted to hold it down about our relationship to Jesus, that’s our problem, not because Jesus has any problems.
And so, if anyone had quality justification for distance, it would be Jesus distancing Himself from us. We have problems. We have not recognized and represented the worth of His name. Instead, He remains faithful (2 Timothy 2:13), and He is unabashed in calling us His brothers.
“Did you hear what he said? Us Lions. That means him and me. Us Lions. That’s what I like about Aslan. No side, no stand-offishness. Us Lions. That meant him and me.” (The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe)